Living worthily of esteem: integrity, keeping one’s word, and a right regard for a good name, given and received for true excellence.
Definitions from the tradition
Aristotle, Nicomachean Ethics IV.3; I.5: Honor is the prize of virtue, but it depends more on those who give it than on him who receives it; good men seek it from the wise and on the ground of their virtue.
Cicero, Tusculan Disputations III.3; De Officiis II.43: True glory is the firm consent of good men praising true excellence; the shortest road to it is to be what you wish to be thought.
Aquinas, Summa Theologiae II-II, q. 103, 131-132: Honor is due to excellence, and to God above all; the vice of vainglory seeks praise for things not worthy of it or without referring it to God.
Scripture, Proverbs 22:1 (KJV): “A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches”
Scripture is quoted from the King James Version as given in the library’s text. Other definitions are summarized, not quoted.
Opposing vices
Dishonor: Breaking faith or acting basely.
Vainglory: Seeking praise for its own sake or for what is not praiseworthy.
— Edmond Rostand, Cyrano de Bergerac, Act 1, Scene 4, trans. Gladys Thomas and Mary F. Guillemard.Quote card
“I am no beggar, mynheer”
— Mary Mapes Dodge, Hans Brinker, or the Silver Skates, Chapter 7, Hans Has His Way (Project Gutenberg #764).Quote card
Frequently cited
“Do you think, because I am poor, obscure, plain, and little, I am soulless and heartless? You think wrong!”
— Charlotte Brontë, Jane Eyre, Chapter XXIII (Project Gutenberg #1260).Quote card
Frequently cited
“never to do outrageousity nor murder, and always to flee treason; also, by no means to be cruel, but to give mercy unto him that asketh mercy”
— Thomas Malory, Le Morte d'Arthur, Book III, Ch. XV (Project Gutenberg #1251 (A. W. Pollard's edition of Caxton's text)).Quote card
“I would," said he, "much rather be asked, why I have not one, than why I have one”
— Plutarch, Lives of the Noble Grecians and Romans, Life of Marcus Cato, trans. John Dryden et al., rev. A. H. Clough (1864).Quote card
“For it is only the love of honour that never grows old; and honour it is, not gain, as some would have it, that rejoices the heart of age and helplessness.”
— Pericles, Pericles' Funeral Oration, Book II.44, trans. Richard Crawley (1874).Quote card
Frequently cited
“Mr. President, I shall enter on no encomium upon Massachusetts; she needs none. There she is. Behold her, and judge for yourselves.”
— Daniel Webster, Second Reply to Hayne, Defence of New England, tribute to Massachusetts (The Great Speeches and Orations of Daniel Webster, ed. Whipple (1879)).Quote card
“For I know well that ye are Sir Gawain, whom all the world worships, wheresoever ye may ride”
— Anonymous, Sir Gawain and the Green Knight, The first temptation.Quote card
Frequently cited
“that you may, like it, shine as lights to those about you; that, in all your actions, you may justify the beauty of the taper by making your deeds honourable and effectual in the discharge of your duty to your fellow-men.”
— Michael Faraday, The Chemical History of a Candle, Lecture VI (Project Gutenberg text (1908 Chatto and Windus impression, ed. William Crookes)).Quote card
“Leap, fellow soldiers, unless you wish to betray your eagle to the enemy. I, for my part, will perform my duty to the commonwealth and my general”
— Julius Caesar, The Conquest of Gaul, Book IV.25, trans. W. A. McDevitte and W. S. Bohn (1869).Quote card
“I believe that a knight should fight by means of his own strength, and not by means of magic”
— Howard Pyle, The Story of King Arthur and His Knights, Book I, Part II, Chapter Third (1903 text).Quote card
“Whoever does what she is bound to do, be she the dirtiest little girl in the street, is a princess, worshipful, honorable.”
— George MacDonald, The Wise Woman (A Double Story), Chapter XII (Project Gutenberg #5676 (A Double Story)).Quote card
Frequently cited
“The only safe rule is to promise little, and faithfully to keep every promise; to "speak softly and carry a big stick."”
— Theodore Roosevelt, Theodore Roosevelt: An Autobiography, Chapter XIV, The Monroe Doctrine and the Panama Canal (Project Gutenberg #3335 (1920 Scribner edition of the 1913 text)).Quote card
Discussion questions
Is honor something you have or something others give you?
When does the love of honor become vainglory?
Which character in your reading kept his word at a cost?
How does Christian humility change the ancient idea of honor?