The theological virtue by which we love God above all things for his own sake, and our neighbor as ourselves for the love of God.
Definitions from the tradition
Aquinas, Summa Theologiae II-II, q. 23: Charity is friendship of man with God, founded on his sharing of his happiness with us; it is the form and mother of all the virtues.
Augustine, City of God XIV.28: Two loves have made two cities: love of self to the contempt of God, and love of God to the contempt of self.
Scripture, 1 Corinthians 13:4 (KJV): “Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up”
Scripture, 1 Corinthians 13:13 (KJV): “And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity”
Scripture is quoted from the King James Version as given in the library’s text. Other definitions are summarized, not quoted.
Opposing vices
Envy: Sorrow at another’s good.
Hatred: Willing evil to another.
Indifference: Coldness to the needs of a neighbor.
“Mankind was my business. The common welfare was my business; charity, mercy, forbearance, and benevolence, were, all, my business”
— Charles Dickens, A Christmas Carol, Stave I (1843 first edition).Quote card
“"She is hungrier than I am," she said to herself. "She's starving."”
— Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess, Chapter 13, One of the Populace (Project Gutenberg #146).Quote card
“to be able to learn things quickly isn't everything. To be kind is worth a great deal to other people.”
— Frances Hodgson Burnett, A Little Princess, Chapter 15, The Magic (Project Gutenberg #146).Quote card
“a man who would give his life, to keep a life you love beside you”
— Charles Dickens, A Tale of Two Cities, Book II, Chapter 13 (Project Gutenberg #98 text).Quote card
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“It is a far, far better thing that I do, than I have ever done; it is a far, far better rest that I go to than I have ever known.”
— Charles Dickens, A Tale of Two Cities, Book III, Chapter 15 (Project Gutenberg #98 text).Quote card
“Providence put me here, I hope, among other reasons, in order that I may make you what amends I can for the inhospitality of my neighbors.”
— Nathaniel Hawthorne, A Wonder-Book for Girls and Boys, The Miraculous Pitcher (Project Gutenberg eBook #32242).Quote card
“Human beings _can_ be awful cruel to one another.”
— Mark Twain, Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, Chapter XXXIII (Project Gutenberg #76 text).Quote card
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“Comrade, I did not want to kill you.”
— Erich Maria Remarque, All Quiet on the Western Front, Chapter IX, trans. A. W. Wheen.Quote card
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“Well now, I’d rather have you than a dozen boys, Anne”
— L. M. Montgomery, Anne of Green Gables, Chapter XXXVI (1908 text).Quote card
“He that doth the ravens feed, Yea, providently caters for the sparrow, Be comfort to my age.”
— William Shakespeare, As You Like It, Act 2, Scene 3 (Project Gutenberg #1523).Quote card
“the cloud had a silver lining, as it gave me the feeling that I was doing something for my world--our family.”
— Andrew Carnegie, Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie, Chapter III (Project Gutenberg #17976 (Constable, 1920)).Quote card
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“Colonel James Anderson--I bless his name as I write--announced that he would open his library of four hundred volumes to boys”
— Andrew Carnegie, Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie, Chapter IV (Project Gutenberg #17976 (Constable, 1920)).Quote card
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“I resolved to stop accumulating and begin the infinitely more serious and difficult task of wise distribution.”
— Andrew Carnegie, Autobiography of Andrew Carnegie, Chapter XIX (Project Gutenberg #17976 (Constable, 1920)).Quote card
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“Accordingly, two cities have been formed by two loves: the earthly by the love of self, even to the contempt of God; the heavenly by the love of God, even to the contempt of self”
— Augustine of Hippo, City of God, Book XIV, Chapter 28, trans. Marcus Dods (1871).Quote card
“Too late loved I Thee, O Thou Beauty of ancient days, yet ever new! too late I loved Thee”
— Augustine of Hippo, Confessions, Book X.27, trans. E. B. Pusey (1838).Quote card
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“Where there is great love there are always miracles”
— Willa Cather, Death Comes for the Archbishop, Book II, The Lonely Road to Mora (1927 text, public-domain source).Quote card
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““Right,” said he, “for they have an angelic face, and it is meet that such should be co-heirs with the Angels in heaven.”
— Bede, Ecclesiastical History of the English People, Book II, Chapter I, trans. A. M. Sellar.Quote card
“it was the highest commendation of his doctrine with all men, that he taught nothing that he did not practise in his life among his brethren”
— Bede, Ecclesiastical History of the English People, Book III, Chapter V, trans. A. M. Sellar.Quote card
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“She is poor; she has sunk from the comforts she was born to; and, if she live to old age, must probably sink more. Her situation should secure your compassion. It was badly done, indeed!”
— Jane Austen, Emma, Vol. III, Ch. VII (Project Gutenberg #158).Quote card
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“Roses bloom and roses decay, But we the Christ-child shall see one day.”
— Hans Christian Andersen, Fairy Tales (Selection), The Snow Queen, Seventh Story, trans. W. A. Craigie.Quote card
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“the parting with my wife and poor children, hath often been to me in this place, as the pulling the flesh from the bones”
— John Bunyan, Grace Abounding to the Chief of Sinners, §327 (Project Gutenberg #654 (Religious Tract Society, 1905)).Quote card
“you have called me your friend. Take this strap--quick!”
— Mary Mapes Dodge, Hans Brinker, or the Silver Skates, Chapter 44, The Race (Project Gutenberg #764).Quote card
“those of the population who had formerly been members of the factions laid aside their mutual enmity and in common they attended to the burial rites of the dead”
— Procopius of Caesarea, History of the Wars, Books I-II (The Persian War), Book II, ch. 23, trans. H. B. Dewing.Quote card
“I have eaten for you, and I have drunk for you, I will also give you the ship; and all because you were kind to me at the first.”
— Jacob and Wilhelm Grimm, Household Stories (Grimm's Fairy Tales), The Golden Goose, trans. Lucy Crane.Quote card
“I want to have time to look for my children, and see how many of them I can find. Maybe I shall find them among the dead.”
— Chief Joseph, I Will Fight No More Forever, Harper's Weekly text, sentences 11-12 (Harper's Weekly, 17 November 1877).Quote card
“when I speak of Mrs. Bruce as my friend, the word is sacred.”
— Harriet A. Jacobs, Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl, Chapter XLI, Free at Last (Project Gutenberg #11030 (1861 text)).Quote card
“tending the sick, feeding the hungry, and relieving the distressed”
— Walter Scott, Ivanhoe, Chapter XLIV (Project Gutenberg #82).Quote card
“May He, who made both Jew and Christian, shower down on you his choicest blessings!”
— Walter Scott, Ivanhoe, Chapter XLIV (Project Gutenberg #82).Quote card
“For just precisely what I thought I liked about ye, was that ye never quarrelled:--and now I like ye better”
— Robert Louis Stevenson, Kidnapped, Chapter XXIV (1886 text).Quote card
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“never to do outrageousity nor murder, and always to flee treason; also, by no means to be cruel, but to give mercy unto him that asketh mercy”
— Thomas Malory, Le Morte d'Arthur, Book III, Ch. XV (Project Gutenberg #1251 (A. W. Pollard's edition of Caxton's text)).Quote card
“Taking, therefore, his sword with which he was girt, he divided his cloak into two equal parts, and gave one part to the poor man, while he again clothed himself with the remainder”
— Sulpitius Severus; Alexander Roberts, Life of St. Martin, Life of St. Martin, Ch. 3, trans. Alexander Roberts (1894).Quote card
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“that best portion of a good man’s life; His little, nameless, unremembered acts Of kindness and of love.”
— William Wordsworth, Lines Composed a Few Miles above Tintern Abbey, Verse paragraph 2 (Lyrical Ballads, 1798 text).Quote card
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“But only be good, dear, only be brave, only be kind and true always, and then you will never hurt any one, so long as you live, and you may help many, and the big world may be better because my little child was born.”
— Frances Hodgson Burnett, Little Lord Fauntleroy, Chapter VII (Project Gutenberg text).Quote card
“Nobody; I myself. Farewell. Commend me to my kind lord. O, farewell!”
— William Shakespeare, Othello, Act 5, Scene 2 (Project Gutenberg #1531).Quote card
“Standing before the Brandenburg Gate, every man is a German, separated from his fellow men. Every man is a Berliner, forced to look upon a scar.”
— Ronald Reagan, Tear Down This Wall (Brandenburg Gate Address), Paragraph 4 (Public Papers of the Presidents (1987)).Quote card
“In a word, I would submit that what keeps you in Berlin is love--love both profound and abiding.”
— Ronald Reagan, Tear Down This Wall (Brandenburg Gate Address), Paragraph 22 (Public Papers of the Presidents (1987)).Quote card
“since here we have passed our lives in love and concord, we wish that one and the same hour may take us both from life, that I may not live to see her grave, nor be laid in my own by her.”
— Thomas Bulfinch, The Age of Fable, Chapter VI, Baucis and Philemon (Project Gutenberg #4925).Quote card
“Alas, poor soul, and we should rather pity him!”
— Robert Louis Stevenson, The Black Arrow, Book I, Chapter VII (Project Gutenberg #848).Quote card
“a life is a life, old shrew, and it is more than ships or liquor.”
— Robert Louis Stevenson, The Black Arrow, Book V, Chapter IV (Project Gutenberg #848).Quote card
“Ye took the better part and pardoned; I took the worse, and there lies the clay of mine enemy.”
— Robert Louis Stevenson, The Black Arrow, Book V, Chapter VII (Project Gutenberg #848).Quote card
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“What is hell?” I maintain that it is the suffering of being unable to love”
— Fyodor Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov, Book VI, Chapter 3, Of Hell and Hell Fire, trans. Constance Garnett (1912).Quote card
“But Christe’s lore, and his apostles’ twelve, He taught, and first he follow’d it himselve”
— Geoffrey Chaucer, The Canterbury Tales, General Prologue, the Parson (Purves edition, Project Gutenberg #2383 (spelling partly modernized)).Quote card
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“that you may, like it, shine as lights to those about you; that, in all your actions, you may justify the beauty of the taper by making your deeds honourable and effectual in the discharge of your duty to your fellow-men.”
— Michael Faraday, The Chemical History of a Candle, Lecture VI (Project Gutenberg text (1908 Chatto and Windus impression, ed. William Crookes)).Quote card
“hath placed a Principle in the human Mind, which incites to exercise Goodness towards every living Creature”
— John Woolman, The Journal of John Woolman, Journal, Chapter I (Project Gutenberg #37311 (Everyman's Library, reprinting the London edition of 1775)).Quote card
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“Love was the first Motion, and thence a Concern arose to spend some Time with the _Indians_, that I might feel and understand their Life, and the Spirit they live in”
— John Woolman, The Journal of John Woolman, Journal, Chapter VIII (Project Gutenberg #37311 (Everyman's Library, reprinting the London edition of 1775)).Quote card
“Tell them, that the Being we all worship, under different names, will be mindful of their charity; and that the time shall not be distant when we may assemble around His throne without distinction of sex, or rank, or color.”
— James Fenimore Cooper, The Last of the Mohicans, Chapter XXXIII (Project Gutenberg #940).Quote card
“The soul is satisfied now with nothing less than God.”
— Teresa of Avila, The Life of St. Teresa of Jesus, Chapter XXIX, § 17, trans. David Lewis.Quote card
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“the thought of what he had done would prove music to him at midnight”
— Izaak Walton, The Lives of Richard Hooker, George Herbert and Robert Sanderson, Life of Herbert (Project Gutenberg #13139 (Cassell's National Library, 1898)).Quote card
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“The quality of mercy is not strain’d, It droppeth as the gentle rain from heaven Upon the place beneath.”
— William Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice, Act 4, Scene 1 (Project Gutenberg #1515, modern spelling).Quote card
“How far that little candle throws his beams! So shines a good deed in a naughty world.”
— William Shakespeare, The Merchant of Venice, Act 5, Scene 1 (Project Gutenberg #1515, modern spelling).Quote card
“your love for each other has been tested in the fire and not found wanting.”
— Agatha Christie, The Murder on the Links, Chapter 28, Journey's End (Project Gutenberg #58866).Quote card
“The happiness of one man and one woman is the greatest thing in all the world.”
— Agatha Christie, The Mysterious Affair at Styles, Chapter XIII (Project Gutenberg #863).Quote card
“Then Christine kissed me, for the first time, herself, here, on the forehead”
— Gaston Leroux, The Phantom of the Opera, Chapter XXVI, trans. Alexander Teixeira de Mattos.Quote card
“he was pleased when he could take up a straw from the ground for the love of GOD, seeking Him only, and nothing else, not even His gifts.”
— Brother Lawrence, The Practice of the Presence of God, Second Conversation, trans. Anonymous (Revell edition).Quote card
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“we ought not to be weary of doing little things for the love of GOD, who regards not the greatness of the work, but the love with which it is performed.”
— Brother Lawrence, The Practice of the Presence of God, Fourth Conversation, trans. Anonymous (Revell edition).Quote card
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“The world is made wrong; kings should go to school to their own laws, at times, and so learn mercy.”
— Mark Twain, The Prince and the Pauper, Chapter XXVII (Project Gutenberg #1837).Quote card
“Dears, when you say your prayers, I think you might ask God to show His pity upon all prisoners and captives.”
— E. Nesbit, The Railway Children, Chapter V, Prisoners and captives (Project Gutenberg #1874).Quote card
“It is, indeed, the season of regenerated feeling--the season for kindling not merely the fire of hospitality in the hall, but the genial flame of charity in the heart.”
— Washington Irving, The Sketch Book of Geoffrey Crayon, Gent., Christmas (Project Gutenberg #2048 (revised edition)).Quote card
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“O Jesus, my Love, at last I have found my vocation. My vocation is love!”
— Therese of Lisieux, The Story of a Soul, Chapter XI, trans. Thomas N. Taylor.Quote card
“So be it. For since I have taken thee for my wife, so must I show thee respect in all matters; wherefore thou shalt have thy will in this and in all other things”
— Howard Pyle, The Story of King Arthur and His Knights, Book II, Part III, Chapter Third (1903 text).Quote card
“You cannot touch love either; but you feel the sweetness that it pours into everything.”
— Helen Keller, The Story of My Life, Part I, Chapter VI (Project Gutenberg #2397).Quote card
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“Be kindly to friend and kin, and reward not their trespasses against thee; bear and forbear, and win for thee thereby long enduring praise of men.”
— Anonymous (Old Norse), The Story of the Volsungs (Volsunga Saga), Chapter XXI, trans. Eiríkr Magnússon and William Morris.Quote card
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“the rarer action is In virtue than in vengeance”
— William Shakespeare, The Tempest, Act 5, Scene 1 (Project Gutenberg #1540).Quote card
“He was a true friend in need, that old roadman.”
— John Buchan, The Thirty-Nine Steps, Chapter VII (Project Gutenberg #558).Quote card
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“either I shall die, and be a ransom for one of the daughters of the Muslims, or I shall live, and be the cause of their deliverance from him.”
— Anonymous; translated by Edward William Lane, The Thousand and One Nights (Lane's translation, Volume I), Introduction, trans. Edward William Lane.Quote card
“Consider, then, O 'Efreet, the pardon of the envied to the envier, and his kindness to him, notwithstanding the injuries he had done him.”
— Anonymous; translated by Edward William Lane, The Thousand and One Nights (Lane's translation, Volume I), Chapter III, Story of the Envier and the Envied, trans. Edward William Lane.Quote card
“If I had not forgiven you, I would never have taken the trouble to punish you.”
— George MacDonald, The Wise Woman (A Double Story), Chapter XIII (Project Gutenberg #5676 (A Double Story)).Quote card
“That Indian, sir, is an inhabitant of an oppressed country; and I am still, and shall be, to my last breath, one of them!”
— Jules Verne, Twenty Thousand Leagues Under the Sea, Part II, Chapter III, A Pearl of Ten Millions, trans. Anonymous 19th-century translation.Quote card
“people might be equal in things that mattered much more than clothes, the affairs of education and religion”
— Jane Addams, Twenty Years at Hull-House, Chapter I, Earliest Impressions (Macmillan, 1910 (Project Gutenberg #1325)).Quote card
“if it were a womanly task to go about in tenement houses in order to nurse the sick, it might be quite as womanly to go through the same district in order to prevent the breeding of so-called "filth diseases."”
— Jane Addams, Twenty Years at Hull-House, Chapter XIII, Public Activities and Investigations (Macmillan, 1910 (Project Gutenberg #1325)).Quote card
“I can love you; I do, and I’ll try to help you to grow up a good Christian girl.”
“we shall patiently bear the trials that fate imposes on us; we shall work for others without rest, both now and when we are old”
— Anton Chekhov, Uncle Vanya, Act IV, trans. Marian Fell.Quote card
“You didn’t do it to help ’Lias. You did it to have him grateful to you.”
— Dorothy Canfield Fisher, Understood Betsy, Chapter VIII, Betsy Starts a Sewing Society (Project Gutenberg #5347).Quote card
“those who are happiest are those who do the most for others.”
— Booker T. Washington, Up from Slavery, Chapter IV (Project Gutenberg #2376).Quote card
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“great men cultivate love, and that only little men cherish a spirit of hatred.”
— Booker T. Washington, Up from Slavery, Chapter XI (Project Gutenberg #2376).Quote card
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“I would permit no man, no matter what his colour might be, to narrow and degrade my soul by making me hate him.”
— Booker T. Washington, Up from Slavery, Chapter XI (Project Gutenberg #2376).Quote card
“But they take more care of their sick than of any others; these are lodged and provided for in public hospitals.”
— Thomas More, Utopia, Book II, Of Their Traffic, trans. Gilbert Burnet.Quote card
“Willingly, had they accepted me, I would have worked for the wounded, in return for bread and water.”
— Mary Seacole, Wonderful Adventures of Mrs. Seacole in Many Lands, Chapter IX (Project Gutenberg #23031 (1857 text)).Quote card
“And the grateful words and smile which rewarded me for binding up a wound or giving cooling drink was a pleasure worth risking life for at any time.”
— Mary Seacole, Wonderful Adventures of Mrs. Seacole in Many Lands, Chapter XVI (Project Gutenberg #23031 (1857 text)).Quote card
“Many others, on that day, gave me thanks in words the meaning of which was lost upon me, and all of them in that one common language of the whole world--smiles.”
— Mary Seacole, Wonderful Adventures of Mrs. Seacole in Many Lands, Chapter XVI (Project Gutenberg #23031 (1857 text)).Quote card
Discussion questions
Why does Paul call charity the greatest of the three?
Who is my neighbor? Answer from a work you have read.
How is charity different from feeling kindly?
What does a deed of charity cost the one who does it?