Virtue index · Classical virtue
Humility
Knowing oneself truly before God: not thinking of oneself more highly than one ought, and receiving every good as a gift.
Definitions from the tradition
Augustine, Letter 118.22: Asked what is first in religion, Augustine answers: humility; and second, humility; and third, humility.
Benedict, Rule of St. Benedict, ch. 7: Benedict describes humility as a ladder of twelve steps, beginning with the fear of God and ending in a love that casts out fear.
Aquinas, Summa Theologiae II-II, q. 161: Humility restrains the mind from tending to high things immoderately, and rests on knowledge of one’s own deficiency; it is compatible with magnanimity, since each regards a different thing.
Scripture, James 4:6 (KJV): “God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble”
Scripture, Philippians 2:3 (KJV): “in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves”
Scripture is quoted from the King James Version as given in the library’s text. Other definitions are summarized, not quoted.
Opposing vices
- Pride: Inordinate love of one’s own excellence, the root of the other sins.
- False humility: Belittling oneself for show or to escape duty.
Works that show humility (251)
In Plutarch’s Lives
Solon, Publius Valerius Poplicola, Quintus Fabius Maximus, Timoleon, Aristides
Quotations
“to be able to learn things quickly isn't everything. To be kind is worth a great deal to other people.”
“his instruction in poetry was not at all from men, nor through the aid of any man, but it was through divine inspiration and as a gift from God that he received the power of song”
“So I'm here to say I'm sorry”
“I am well aware that I am the umblest person going”
“Praised be my Lord for our sister water, who is very serviceable unto us and humble and precious and clean”
“it was the highest commendation of his doctrine with all men, that he taught nothing that he did not practise in his life among his brethren”
Frequently cited
““Cædmon, sing me something.” But he answered, “I cannot sing, and for this cause I left the banquet and retired hither, because I could not sing.””
Frequently cited
“for though it is very easy to talk of atoms, it is very difficult to form a clear idea of their nature, especially when compound bodies are under consideration.”
Frequently cited
“I have seen tears in the Emperor's eyes — that is the real treasure to me.”
“he was so happy, and yet not at all proud.”
“three or four poor women sitting at a door, in the sun, talking about the things of God”
“In peace there’s nothing so becomes a man As modest stillness and humility”
“Praised be God, and not our strength, for it”
Frequently cited
“Hear me, my chiefs! I am tired; my heart is sick and sad. From where the sun now stands I will fight no more forever.”
Frequently cited
“We are not our own; therefore, neither is our own reason or will to rule our acts and counsels. We are not our own; therefore, let us not make it our end to seek what may be agreeable to our carnal nature. We are not our own; therefore, as far as possible, let us forget ourselves and the things that are ours. On the other hand, we are God's; let us, therefore, live and die to him (Rom. 14:8).”
Frequently cited
“I will not be ashamed to confess that it is too high a mystery either for my mind to comprehend or my words to express; and to speak more plainly, I rather feel than understand it.”
“Davie, Davie,” I thought, “was ever seen such black ingratitude? Can you forget old favours and old friends at the mere whistle of a name? Fie, fie; think shame”
“We’re neither one of us to mend the other--that’s the truth! We must just bear and forbear, man Alan”
“O Lord, if I am still necessary to your people, I do not shrink from toil: your will be done”
“But if I have to be an earl, there's one thing I can do: I can try to be a good one.”
Frequently cited
“with a turn of the hand he made a circle, so true in proportion and circumference that to behold it was a marvel.”
“I would," said he, "much rather be asked, why I have not one, than why I have one”
“Then, Meno, the conclusion is that virtue comes to the virtuous by the gift of God.”
“Contempt, farewell! and maiden pride, adieu! No glory lives behind the back of such.”
Frequently cited
“And let us beseech the blessing of Almighty God upon this great and noble undertaking.”
Frequently cited
“Man is but a reed, the most feeble thing in nature; but he is a thinking reed”
“Man is neither angel nor brute, and the unfortunate thing is that he who would act the angel acts the brute”
Frequently cited
“I'm nobody! Who are you? Are you nobody, too?”
“he felt himself merely the upper servant of his people, and that it must be his life-long labor to make them better and happier.”
“Only it grieves me when I understand What precious time in vanity I’ve spent”
“And though that he was worthy he was wise”
“the greatest mistakes and faults with regard to candles, as in many other things, often bring with them instruction which we should not receive if they had not occurred.”
Frequently cited
“But as I rav’d and grew more fierce and wilde At every word, Me thoughts I heard one calling, Childe: And I reply’d, My Lord.”
Frequently cited
“We came into the world like brother and brother, And now let’s go hand in hand, not one before another.”
“Ay me, how many perils doe enfold The righteous man, to make him daily fall, Were not that heavenly grace doth him uphold, And stedfast truth acquite him out of all.”
“If any strength we have, it is to ill, But all the good is Gods, both power and eke will.”
Frequently cited
“just remember that all the people in this world haven’t had the advantages that you’ve had.”
“But if men grow proud and self-willed, and misuse God’s fair gifts, He lets them go their own ways, and fall pitifully, that the glory may be His alone.”
“It is worth those persons' while to listen, who despise all things human in comparison with riches”
Frequently cited
“Love was the first Motion, and thence a Concern arose to spend some Time with the _Indians_, that I might feel and understand their Life, and the Spirit they live in”
“O! that all may take Heed and beware of Covetousness! O that all may learn of Christ, who was meek and low of Heart!”
Frequently cited
“Ignorance, madam, pure ignorance.”
Frequently cited
“That is the real issue. That is the issue that will continue in this country when these poor tongues of Judge Douglas and myself shall be silent.”
Frequently cited
“it was the Odes of Horace,--he being then like humble and innocent Abel, tending his small allotment of sheep in a common field”
Frequently cited
“the thought of what he had done would prove music to him at midnight”
Frequently cited
“a picture of the many spiritual conflicts that have passed betwixt God and my soul, before I could subject mine to the will of Jesus my Master: in whose service I have now found perfect freedom.”
“So have all of us, at one time and another”
“he was pleased when he could take up a straw from the ground for the love of GOD, seeking Him only, and nothing else, not even His gifts.”
Frequently cited
“we may make an oratory of our heart wherein to retire from time to time to converse with Him in meekness, humility and love.”
“Hold yourself in prayer before GOD, like a dumb or paralytic beggar at a rich man's gate.”
“One does not become holy all at once.”
“And so I am become a knight of the Kingdom of Dreams and Shadows!”
“Do better, and grow better, and be better.”
Frequently cited
“I understood that if all the lowly flowers wished to be roses, nature would lose its springtide beauty, and the fields would no longer be enamelled with lovely hues.”
Frequently cited
“I will seek out a means of getting to Heaven by a little way--very short and very straight, a little way that is wholly new.”
“So be it. For since I have taken thee for my wife, so must I show thee respect in all matters; wherefore thou shalt have thy will in this and in all other things”
“for it needs not that a man shall wear armor for to be a true knight, but only that he shall do his best endeavor with all patience and humility as it hath been ordained for him to do”
“I’ll be wise hereafter, And seek for grace.”
Frequently cited
“Therefore wait to see life’s ending ere thou count one mortal blest; Wait till free from pain and sorrow he has gained his final rest”
“Until our duty becomes to us common as breathing, we are poor creatures.”
“people might be equal in things that mattered much more than clothes, the affairs of education and religion”
“You didn’t do it to help ’Lias. You did it to have him grateful to you.”
Frequently cited
“The sweeping of that room was my college examination”
Discussion questions
- Why did Christian writers call pride the root of other sins?
- Can a humble person know that he has real gifts?
- Which character in your reading falls through pride, and which rises through humility?
- How is humility different from low self-esteem?
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